I stopped the car as we approached another signal. My friend was sitting next to me in the car. Traffic signals generally open a new topic. Don’t know why. When the car comes to a halt after flowing freely, I guess it happens to our thoughts as well. The system restart does happen. We forgot what we were talking until then. As the car stopped for the signal, my friend suddenly looked at me and asked . . .
Friend: So what’s your Zen saying?
Me: What?Friend: Zen. You follow Zen, right?
Me: Yeah, I think I do, as much as possible.Friend: But what does that say?
Me: What do you mean what does that say?Friend: A religion must say something right?
Me: Okay I get it. For starters, Zen is not a religion.Friend: What is it then?
Me: It is a way of life. A philosophy. But tell me something.
Friend: What?Me: You’re a hindu right?
Friend: Yeah, you know that. I’m a religious person.
Me: What does Hinduism say?
Friend: What do you mean what does it say?Me: As in, a religion must say something right?
Friend: Well, I’m sure it does say something but . . .Me: You don’t know?
Friend: Hinduism is a great religion and the oldest too. There are these vedas, epics and puranas.Me: That’s all right but I was just trying to know how much you know what your religion says.
Friend: I may not know enough but it’s a great religion.Me: How did you end up following Hinduism?
Friend: What kind of question is this? I’m a born Hindu. Mine is a Hindu family.Me: So you’ve inherited your religion. You haven’t chosen your religion as such.
Friend: I think that’s very normal.Me: To inherit is normal. To continue with that or know more about that is your own choice.
Friend: Whether I know or not, I do follow. That’s called faith.Me: How come you say that you follow a religion and you don’t know what it says.
Friend: What’s the big deal?Me: Religion is all about beliefs right? You don’t know what it says but you have the belief. You believe something that you don’t know?
Friend: Hey hey, hold on. We do a lot of things that we may not fully understand.Me: Is that a comforting thing? I’d say it’s even worse to say that there many such things.
Friend: But that’s the way it is.Me: Do you know what’s the difference among Hinduism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Judaism and Jainism?
Friend: No, I don’t. Why do I have to know about all those religions. I’m a Hindu and I’m fine with that.Me: What’s not fine is that you don’t know what Hinduism says. It’s ok if you don’t know about the religions that you don’t follow. But Hinduism?
Friend: As I said, it’s not natural for us. Honestly we don’t want to spent too much time on that.Me: Don’t you think religions have become like political parties. You know that they’re supposed to have different ideologies. You know they are different. You don’t what exactly their policies are. In reality, all that you see is they behave differently. But you still vote.
Friend: There’s a reason why we are where we are . . (smiles)Me: Today, religion is all in practice and behaviour and hardly anyone cares about the theory.
Friend: Okay. Now what are you trying to achieve?
Me: We’ve got the signal. Let’s go. You think we’ll be late?




22 Mar 09
It is a sad fact that quite a few people follow religions that they are born into and not out of a choice they are given. While some dare to experiment and learn more about it, others just pass it off as a part of life that has to be followed blindly.
Thankfully, I was given a choice in life to follow the religion that makes me feel connected to the other realm. Zen is a great way of life which can be followed by just about anyone.
You are a deep thinker and I am glad that we met. I look forward to reading more from your blog.
This world is much too beautiful to not ‘think’ and people like you always stay close to my heart!
Stay in touch!